I’ve only gone to two schools in my life.
College: University of Texas. Hook ‘Em. I bleed orange.
Pre-kindergarten through high school…The Greenhill School. Fifteen years; the school community is like my second family. I love it more than I can state. My very best friends to this day comprise the community. They are alumni. They are parents. They are teachers. Their children are in gradeschool creating the same memories for themselves that I created 30 years ago. It is a wonderful place.
Last night was “The Greenhill Gala”. The largest fund raising event of the year. A giant event where the majority of the current parents and a good portion of the alumni gather for a dinner, live auction, and some redeeming live entertainment. This year the Gala Chair, Lael Brodsky (a dear friend and member of my graduating class) showed a level of creativity that no other institution of this caliber had the courage to even attempt.
Usually the event is at some neutral site. Pick the usual high end venue of your choice: The Anatole, Hyatt Regency, Wyndham, you name it. Close your eyes and it could be any school’s fundraiser. St. Marks, Hockaday, Parish…they are all lovely venues, but it gets generic.
What was Lael’s idea? So simple, yet so complex…have the party ON CAMPUS. Big party tent. High level catering, higher level of entertainment. Again, the usual play here is to find the funniest re-tread musical act from a bygone generation (cue KC and the Sunshine Band or Huey Lewis or the like…all done to death). What was Lael’s idea, only the most relevant, cultural phenomenon of our time. Anyone could get Kool and the Gang…just make a phone call; but what does America stop down for? How about American Idol? Again, genius. American Idol past champion Taylor Hicks rocked it out on the Greenhill campus. Now the parents could have something relevant to go home and talk about with their kids.
The warm up was amazing too. An artist named David Dunn does something called “PaintJam”. He starts with a huge blank canvas on a rotating stand (visualize a giant black pinwheel). Music blares, he flings paint…the canvas spins…it is crazy high energy…and the next thing you know, its a contemproray portrait. Ray Charles was awesome. When he finished Emmitt Smith, the room was amazed!
As far as the event planning went, there were soooo many moving parts…from disposing of dirty dishes to chilling the wine to making sure there were enough parking spaces; not to mention constructing a temporary structure large and sturdy enough to accomodate the thousands of attendees. Great idea, no way it could be pulled off.
Lael, you did a great job. I don’t know how you did it, but you did it. I’ve gone to about 12 of these things and this is the best one I can remember. All of that experience throwing parties in high school paid off for you big time. You made quite a statement.
Now what does this have to do with Real Estate, you ask?
The gala is a huge event. A big room of people all of whom I consider frineds. Many of whom are my clients. I have a personal rule when going to events like this; I never talk about Real Estate unless someone brings it up to me. There is nothing I hate more than the “hit and run” “How’s the real estate market?” question. I mean, thats a difficult question to answer with 20 minutes of undivided attention, but when someone is trying to kill 45 seconds while in line at the bar waiting for their cosmo? Forget it.
Anyway, many of my clients in the room. One in particular is a new, high end listing. We have just gone on the market and have had some exciting activity in the first few days. My client and his wife saw me from across the room and we made our way to each other to visit about how great the party was going. What he told me when we got together floored me.
” You know, I was just confronted by Realtor X”.
I’m not going to use any real names here. I know Realtor X. I have had a few interactions with Realtor X. In the marketplace, Realtor X is known as having the charm and finesse of a rhino. My client went on to describe his conversation as going something like this…
“SO…I see you just listed your house with Kyle?” (notice that there is no “Hello” or “How are you?”, or “How’s the family?”, or anything that could be considered polite repartee).
“Yes I did”.
“Where are you moving?”
“We don’t know yet. We’re still looking.”
“Who’s helping you find your new house?”
“Also Kyle.”
“Why Kyle? What is he giving you?”
“Nothing. He’s just aggressive and very knowledgable in the market.”
“Well, you know I’m in the top XX of realtors in my company. I don’t understand why you’re using him”.
If the above exchange reads as being confrontational, I’m sorry. I meant it to read as EXTREMELY CONFRONTATIONAL. To have this kind of conversation in a room full of people is at least inapropriate, and at most a violation of the code of ethics. Again, I don’t claim to have invented Real Estate, but I was under the impression that a Realtor is not allowed to start a conversation with a person about a property that is already listed. If the person comes up to you and initiates the conversation, then it is ok to follow up, but never start it. I still can’t believe this happened. I would never dream of having this conversation other than saying “Good Luck, and I hope I can bring you a buyer”. The clients were very upset.
So…Realtor X, keep your bony fingers out of peoples faces…maybe help bring a buyer and next time around they will have a favorable opinion of you and give you the listing.
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